Change of name

It's a major issue the change of name business prior to and after marriage, so it's a wonder many couples don't address it prior to tying the knot!

In all fairness when a woman has a nice sounding, easy to pronounce and 'catchy' maiden surname she is not willing to exchange it for one that is not so catchy, nice sounding and easy to pronounce.

Other things to consider, is your fiancée’s or wife's unwillingness to let go of her maiden surname due to sentimental reasons? i.e. no sons to carry on her father's name, men really should understand that.

If you don't, note one day it could be you who has no son's who will or can carry on your name and your daughter(s) may want to carry on your name and will have an uncompromising and inconsiderate spouse who will refuse that request, just like you are doing now!
An option many people go for is the double barrelled name that actually works quite well for many couples or the husband takes on his father’s first name which may be more suitable as a surname or his paternal grandfather's name.

This is just a suggestion, with an open mind and clear lines of communication added with some creativity, you'll be surprised what you can achieve.

I Look forward to hearing especially from those who have made it work or know of others who have.